The bad boy tamed by the right girl has long been a cliché in movies and
on TV. From Joey from Friends to Barney in How I Met Your Mother, the
promiscuous man who prefers commitment-free hook-ups is shown to be
perfectly willing to change his philandering ways once he realizes how
unfulfilled he is. In reality, there are plenty of men out there who
simply don’t want a serious relationship or don’t want one with you.
If
you’re looking for a serious relationship, it’s important to be able to
tell the difference between a relationship with potential, and one
that’s unlikely to develop into anything more. Here are four tell-tale
phrases that suggest he won’t be changing his ways any time soon. 1. “I think it’s too soon for you to meet my family”
If a guy is serious a bout you, he’ll want you to meet his family as
soon as possible. He might be nervous about the meeting, because he
wants it to go well, but he won’t fob you off with excuses any time y ou
suggest seeing them.
2. “I don’t think you’d like my friends”
If it seems that he really doesn’t want you to meet his friends, it
suggests that they either don’t know you exist, or that he has given
them a very different impression of what kind of relationship you have.
Either way, it’s not a good sign for the future of your relationship.
3. “I’m not looking for anything serious”
Perhaps the old cliché of bad boy tamed is to blame, but many women
don’t believe what they hear when a man says he’s not looking for a
serious relationship. They make the classic mistake of thinking that
things will change when he realizes just how much they mean to him, and
hanging on in the hope that he will eventually fall head-over-heels in
love. If you met using online dating, it should be clear whether he is
after something serious or not.
Most men won’t lie about what they are
looking for. So if he says “I’m not looking for anything serious” he
means just that. Take it as a clear sign and don’t waste any more time
with him. If you feel you are attracting the wrong type of man, you
could try a site such as eHarmony who match people according to their
values and beliefs. This way, you can be sure from the outset that
you’re both looking for the same things. While being spontaneous can be
very exciting and romantic, it’s not a good sign if he doesn’t ever want
to make solid plans with you.
If he’s developing serious feelings for
you, he’ll want to make as many plans as possible so he always knows
when he’ll be seeing you next. If he’s seeing a few other girls, he
might be waiting to see what other offers he gets before committing to
anything. This ‘spontaneity’ could also be another way of saying ‘let’s
just hook up whenever I feel like it.’ Source: galtime.com
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